simple pracitce of life

While doing field work,anthropologists have been known to lose themselves in the very society that they're studying,a phenomenon known as"going native".

When this occurs,the proper course of action is to remove oneself,

ASAP.

 

I can not gone native,the only right thing to do is

There's a popular belief amongst anthropologists that you must immerse yourself in an unfamiliar world in order to truly understand your own.

The difference between successful people and failures is that successful people make a habit of doing the things that failures do not like to do.And what are those things? Well, the things that failures don't like to do are the same thing that successful people don't like to do either.But successful people do them anyway because they realize that these are the prices that they must pay for the success that they desire.

Successful people are more concerned with pleasing results.Failures are more concerned with pleasing methods. Successful people do things that are goal achieving.Unsuccessful people do things that are tension relieving.Successful people do the things that are hard and necessary and important. Unsucessful people,on the other hand,prefer to do the things that are fun and easy and which give immediate enjoyment.

This test is whether or not you can can keep your mind on what you want and where you are going rather than thinking about things you don't want or problems that you have had in the past.

规则:
1.被点到名字的要在自己的博客或者空间写下答案，所有问题都要真实回答，并且要将这几个题目传给你的7个好朋友，通知对方，你被点名了。
2.这7个人要在博客或者空间上注明是在哪儿接受到的题目，并且要再将题目传给其他7个好朋友。让游戏继续下去，不得回。
3.虽然不可以回帖，但是你的朋友还是可能会点到你，如果有第二次，甚至是第三次点到被点，那么说明你将会是一个非常幸运和幸福的人。 4.答完题后，删除掉一个你想删除的问题，增加一个你想增加的问题，然后传给朋友。

1.从谁那里接到的题？
   大山
2.2007年最大的愿望是什么？
   通过所有的考试。

3.要是失眠，你会做什么？
    听音乐
4.如果你爱的人伤害了你，你会怎么做？
    从小一直被所爱的人伤害。

5.你会和现在陪伴你的人结婚么？
   有部韩国电影里说：不要总觉得下一个街口会有更好的人在等待，如果不用心的话，就永远只能是等待而已

6.在你心目中，我是怎样一个人？ 
   整洁，细心，有理想，自尊心强，思想华丽又复杂，一年中大部分时间都不得不过着自欺欺人的日子的无辜男人。

7.是顺从现实而低调，还是反抗现实而个性
   反抗？那得看是跟着群众反还是一个人反。。。。李敖说过：英雄是逼出来的。

8.智慧和美貌，你选哪个？
   没有智慧的美貌是trash
9.什么才算得上真正的朋友？
   真正的？互不干扰内政，但是在对方down的时候二话不说地愿意陪着对方，对此我一直相信时间会说明一切的。

   有的时候无论单方面努力到什么程度，人家还是不care，人家give a shit.
10.最近最让你迷惘的事情是什么？
    补考。。。
11.不开心的时候你会做什么？如果是自己关心的人不开心了呢，你会为他做些什么？
    游泳，跟各种人聊天。

    看是什么原因不开心，找到point，如果不是我能为他/她解决的就静静地陪着他/她，给他支持。
12.遇到不喜欢的人，可是必须跟她经常打交道，你会怎么办？
    focus on他/她的优点。
13.现在最想吃什么？
    桃子，又大又水又甜又冰又软的水蜜桃，桃。
14.你喜欢的和喜欢你的，你会选择哪一个？前提是你喜欢的不喜欢你。
    都不选，选哪一个心里都会难过死，但一个人我不会死。
15.如果整容没有危险，只有疼痛，你会忍痛让自己变的更美吗？
    不！严重怕痛！而且太美有危险
16.你相信命运吗？
    相信的
17.你这一生追求的是什么？
    丰腴的回忆。。
18.如果明天就是末日，你最想和谁在一块儿？
    怎么会有这么不靠普又out-date的假设？和自己爱的人。 
19.就在此刻，你想到了谁/正在想谁？
    传给我这这众多题目们的人。。
20.觉得老去可怕吗？为什么？怎样对待青春呢？
    不啊，人如果能有机会没什么大毛病大意外地老去是很优雅也很幸运的一件事。

    青春时期我希望能积累健康有个好身体，积累记忆有个好回忆。
21.感情的开始一定需要表白吗？
    可能吧
22.如果两个人和你都是真心相爱,你会劈腿吗?
    什么？不会，太麻烦了太累了。
23.在你各个年龄段时，所想从事的职业和原因。         
    医生，作家，艺术家，服装设计师，建筑师，摄影师，记者，物流师……原因很简易，就是从梦想到现实。          
 24.你最近的一次哭泣是什么时候，是为了什么呢?
    看电影，场面是油轮和渡轮相撞，导演拍得很清楚那些半死的人残缺的样子，赶到的医生们在拼命抢救。。。

    一瞬间让我联想到自己的心跳。 
25.你什么时候会觉得无助～
    一个人面对绝望
26.在精神世界里，你现在最渴望什么？
    平静，没有杂念地好好准备考试
27.做过的让自己最得意的事是什么？
    想了半天，没有发现。。。
28.在伤害面前，你选择坦白还是隐瞒？
    没看懂，对着伤害坦白和隐瞒是个什么概念？
28.毕业前最想完成的心愿是啥？
    通过高口和物流师考试 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It's been raining for weeks in Shanghai,this kind of wet weather really is driving me crazy.

 

Sometimes Shanghai seems pretty nosiy and crowded,espcially when the dark, overcast winter conquer the whole city.

Sometimes I have the thought that it would be excellent if I have a pair of wings and can fly to a seabeach and get rid of the depression and frustration I have to suffer here.

 

Thank goodness~We've got a sunny day today~We went out immediatey to enjoy the sunshine and finish the photographic homework.

        

   

                

 

As a famous writer once said:"Times may wrinkle the skin,but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul!"

There should be in every human being's heart the lure of wonder,the failing childlike appetite for what's next and the joy of living~

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

YUZHAO~Call herself A Cantonese super QUEEN....

Her blog:http://www.blogcn.com/user55/loveyuzhao/index.html

 

 

A deep sense of longing for home.....back to my lovely warmly Canton.... 

It was my 20 years old birthday yesterday

From now on,I decided to act like an adult

 

We five guys(4 girls and a boy) by no means want to miss this wonderful excuse,which is to celebrated the special day,to go out and treat us something gorgeous to satisfy our stomaches.

 

As a result, We've got a fabulous night~I'd like to consider it as a gift from GOD~

 

Our destination is Wu Jiang Road,the so-called SH snacks street.

The atmosphere of WJ Road is distinctly noisy and excited that as soon as we got there,we personified the evil that was in the world........

                     

I was hearten with the four accommodating buddies I've got,cheered by the happiness and fullness of our "delicacy hunting journey",grateful for the hospitality showed by the street vendors of WJ Road~

 

The only regret is that I Couldn't ask Vivian,an old friend of mine,to join us.

Her cell phone was power off that We could not connect her the whole day.What's worse, since she just got the 10000RMB scholarship offered by NORDEN company,she is always been busy with a lot of stuff that we' ve no idea where to find her.

Anyway, we decided to have supper together some day to make up for her missing joy~

 

                      

 

Well, last night, about 0:00 am, I was frightened.

Cos my roommates both went home and it is rainning heavily outside. Since there are some dolls in my domitory,this situation make me felt kind of weird. 

For that sake,I wanted to ask someone to give me a phone call for some comfort,but it was so late that I've no idea who is still awake

Thank goodness,5 mins later,I got a phone call from QJ, one of my high school classmates.

We talked alot,about school lives,old classmates,high school teachers,his romance.......this talking reminded me my senior 3' s times ~Which is a totally damn mass time of my life, no one was able to tide me over the period of panic difficulty.

 

As it is said by XH, "I should feel truely grateful."for everything that happened in my life and everyone that appeared in my life.Without them,I will never grow up~

 

Becase I have to prepare the final exam of electronic tech and graduation of FUDAN Uni's media study,I may not be on the Internet during the next couple weeks

miss you guys~

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The theme is "Hyperdesign~"   Start Date: 9/5/2006   End Date:11/5/2006

As a very fresh element in visual culture and consummation industry, the Biennale explores the complicated, overlapping social liaison and cultural meanings hidden behind the phenomenon of "Design".

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This National Day, I changed my hair style again~

Well,I considered it's OK~

Seeing my new look,my friends said:"That's the typical of you!!"

 

Yep,I like changing,to me,change my stuff is pretty fun! 

Although sometimes the result may not be very satisfy keeping change still can be my life-saver, my life-enhancer, and my link to trying!

I placed great emphasis on individual difference, on having a great number of choices, and on doing things my own way.

So if the behavior does not disturb others, I won't judge people when they are expressing themselves in strange ways.  

You don't have to blow out others' candle to make yours glow bright~

Pouring scorn on others won't show how wise you re, quite the other way around, Being too judge may make you a dull man!

 

 

I do believe that we need to give ourselves the gift of changing to help us tickle study or job-related stress before it tackles us!

             

 

 

   

    Have you ever experienced days when everything choose to go wrong at precisely the same moment??

    Things can go wrong at a big scale!As I recently discovered in my designing class....

 

    Firstly,I considered it will be a piece of cake and felt quite excited for we could slip all of the boring lessons just focus on drawing.But sooner afterwards,I found that what I expected is never gonna happen...We've got a uphill journey....

 

    Facing numerous programs which waitting to be caculate,every parts of the object are inclusive.While taking every sigle parts' measurments,we must retrospect those formulas we've learnt long long ago

 

    So we went to mechnism laboratory to check out the object we are going to design.We removed every spare parts of it and re-equiped all of them.Then we gave a sketch of these stuffs and looked up the suitable size in design manual to insure it will work.

 

    There were times we held our feet to fire.

    Especially when we headlong plunged to the overlook drawing,as the exact size of bearing didn't register us,we had to snap out of it and go back to caculating......Using our resources cross funtionally is quite imp~

   

     During these days,I worked through my emotions on some issues for many times.I felt like I was being robbed of the good things in life!!!

     I decided that I will never do this kind of job in the future!The possiblity of my forming a wonderful bond with this machine will never exist!!

 

     But right now,I STILL need to rise up to the challenge before my panic comes to a boil......

  

    

 

 

 

Two days celebration of naming and delivery of the first bulk carrier(vessel) contracted by NORDEN group(Danmark) in China was over.

I learnt a lot from that.Espeially the skills of communication.

Mr Carsten,CEO of NORDEN group.
He is so nice that I really enjoy talking with him.He is a good closer.
Mr Carsten never stands in the corner and sanding that message:"Hey, I dont wanna be talk to."
He always be open to others,likes people and lets them know it.
Being down to earth and being humble is extremly important.

 

As we all know,all the brilliant ideas in the world are worthless if you don't share them.

The ability to communicate well is what lights the fire in people;it's what turns great ideas into action;it's what makes all achievement possible.
So I think no matter how busy I am,I absolutely must make time to communicate.
 
Just like the riders in a race do not stop when they reach the goal.There is a little finishing canter before coming to a standstill.The race is over,but the work never is done while the power to work remains.
The canter that brings you to a standstill need not be only coming to rest.For "to live is to funtion".
I still have a lot of goals waiting to be achieve.

 

As one of my friends once told me before:"What is called 'done'? This word is d-o-n-e,determination,one goal,never stop and excellent."

 

I'm gonna move on,and well prepare myself to take my next step into the threshold of the outside world.

 

 

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